I was doing some pondering, and I decided I’m unsure if I’m acespec and don’t want to label it. I’ll just let myself expierience things. Also, I really felt comfortable with the lesbian label- and I felt like I fit into that way more than being bi, especially because I can not find myself attracted to men in more than a platonic way. I’m transmasc enby- and I did some research, and it turns out I am certainly not the only person to resonate with all three labels- and I’ve been quite fond of that label combination before when trying out labels- so I think I will stick to that.
Also, would he/they or they/he fit better in terms of my labels?
Pronouns dont fit any labels because their theyre own separate thing of expression pronoun order doesnt matter either
That’s alright, take your time. Labels can be hard. And in the end, a label is just a word to find yourself and connect to other people like you. Not a contract with the universe, you’re allowed to change it later on.
Like @Screech-and-Lullabies said, pronouns don’t really go with any specific label. In my experience, when using shorthand for two sets of pronouns, the set that the person is more comfortable with goes first- for example, Bailey’s pronouns are they/he because their “primary” set if pronouns is they/them. I use he/ae because he/him are my “primary” set. However not everyone does this, and it’s really up to you 