Hi my name is Aareon, I’m AFAB I’ve been exploring my gender since I was in 6-7th grade. Lately I’ve been feeling that my gender is more fliud between the Non-binary/Transmasculine umbrellas. I prefer to dress more in a Gender Neutral or Masculine way and I go by He/They pronouns. I’ve been thinking about getting top surgery recently but I don’t think that I want to fully change to be the opposite gender. And at the same time I don’t feel like a guy or a girl. Is there a gender for that?
Also for my sexuality, I like both guys and girls but sometimes the terms I use change depending on my gender. Like when I feel more male, I refer to myself as gay, when I feel more neutral I say I’m bi. Is there a label for that?
Gender presentation has no correlation to gender nor does pronouns how one transitions is up to them anyways im bad at labels but here
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Enboy
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Aporagender
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Neutrois
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Mascigender
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Proxvir
https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Agender_boy
Hi Aareon, my name’s Rowan!
I’ve been feeling the same thing. And currently I identify as I’m linumgender (a genderfluid man) and faunpronominal (preferred mas and nuetral pronouns). You could also just be transgender. The “don’t feel like a guy or a girl” could be agender/genderless or non-binary.
And for the sexuality, I’m not sure, but I could look around. Just give me a second.
I couldn’t find an exact match, but it could be something like:
Abrosexual
Omnique
Omnigai
Bisexual
Polysexual
Omnisexual
Biflux
Omniflux
I couldn’t find a perfect match, but if you just look around a bit, I know you’ll find a label you like!
Ty Ty Ty!! :))
Not a perfect match either but theres also this
https://orientation.fandom.com/wiki/Agentosexuality
Regarding any surgery in general related to gender I believe it is wise to hold off until you get older, you can’t add back the tissue you remove
Genderqueer
Demiboy
Bigender
Polysexuality
Also, with what @/The Shashophille said, don’t do anything until you are 100% sure this is something you want to do. Take your time, experience things, and then decide if it’s right or wrong for /you/. Some gender-affirming things can be irreversible.
About the top surgery, if you don’t bind, try it, see if you feel comfortable in your body that way,(there are ways to bind without a binder if you need them) that can definitely help your decision.