Y’know when people are like “i’m not transphobic but…” and then they really test that line between “not-knowing” and “transphobic”?
Usually it’s people who are anti-microlabels/anti-xeogender
This is directed at 2 people. if you are stalking me, you know who /j
-Moth, they/them
Honestly i thought you were gonna talk about trans people who are like “im not transphobic unless its me.” (me)
There are definitely times where im like “yall are valid i aint”
Yeah same
Me: “Yeah, you can 100% be trans without dysphoria!”
Me: doesn’t have dysphoria one day
Me: “I’m not trans, I’m faking it, i’m just a girl who wants to be special…”
Also your situation sounds like it sucks. hope you can distancr yourself from those people
Also heres a good thing to tell them:
I get you dont understand these labels but they work for me. Please just let me have this, it makes me happy.
^^^Same!! I do exactly that